ABOUT ME
I serve women who seem to have it all (on paper) but are sick of living for approval and long for deeper, soul-level fulfillment.
I’m here to help you:
Plug your energy leaks
Take back your power
Cultivate your intuition and self-trust
Build practical leadership and communication skills
So you can:
Step off the draining hamster wheel of people-pleasing once-and-for-all
Go from surviving to thriving in the boardroom and the bedroom (and most importantly, inside your own self!)
Claim the juicy life that’s yours alone to live
Are you ready to dissolve the invisible bondage of your conditioning?
Are you ready to stop giving so many f*cks?
Are you ready to have all the fun while you win at life (on YOUR terms)?
THEN LET’S DO THIS.
Who I am as a coach
I’m a Duke grad and Google and YouTube veteran as well as a devoted student and teacher of meditation, yoga and Tantra. I’m also a wife, and a mom to a wild little baby girl.
In terms of experience and expertise, I have years of leadership/executive coaching AND trauma-informed somatic coaching under my belt.
I’m certified as an Executive Coach by Accomplishment Coaching, a rigorous international year-long in-person coach training program based in ontology (the study of the nature of being). I’m also certified as a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach through Layla’s Martin’s VITA Methodology, a profound approach that works with the body and energy and is based in the cutting-edge intersection of science and Tantra.
Over the past 7 years, I’ve been helping women at tech companies like Google, Apple, and Airbnb (along with women in banking, consulting, and other male-dominated industries) plug their energy leaks, take back their power, cultivate their intuition, and build their leadership and communication skills so they can go from surviving to thriving in the boardroom and the bedroom, from a place of fearless authenticity.
Before coaching full-time, I was a marketer at Google, where I wrote thought leadership speeches and articles for C-level executives at the world’s biggest brands and advertising agencies.
I bring boldness and play to my transformational coaching work. My style is equally direct and compassionate. And there’s nothing that fires me up more than witnessing women access their truth and bravely go for it.
The story behind the name “Ruby Ray”
What’s the deal with the name “Ruby Ray?” Settle in for a little story time…
It all started many years ago at Mission Beach Cafe in SF (which I don't think exists anymore), over brunch with my friend and college roommate Rachel.
We were trying to come up with a brand name that would capture how I wanted women to experience themselves/life after working with me --- bold, powerful, and juicy. Over the course of brunch we threw down what felt like hundreds of name ideas, including “Bold Break, "Soul Unboxed,” and “Life Ecstatic.” Then the name “Living Color” came up and we started talking about colors. What color would capture a fully alive woman? The word “red” instantly came to mind. But what kind of red?
It was after brunch, when we were walking back to my place, that the “aha” moment came. I was telling Rachel about the new red booties I was wearing (that I bought to celebrate my new career).
She said, “They're like Dorothy’s slippers.” Then we both looked at each other with wide eyes and exclaimed, “Ruby!!!”
I almost jumped out of those shoes it was so perfect.
♦️ First of all, in the Tantrik yoga tradition (which I've been a devout student of for many years now), ruby is the color of a powerful energy center in the body, called a bindu, which is even more fundamental than a chakra.
♦️ The ruby red bindu (located in the lower belly) represents the joy of embodiment and is associated with dancing Ganesh (a fierce form of the beloved remover of obstacles and deity of new beginnings).
♦️ Ruby is also the color of blood, which make me think of raw female life force -- radiant, erotic and unstoppable
♦️ And then of course, ruby is the color of Dorothy’s magic slippers, which brought her home to her very own self, transformed, after she went on her heroine’s journey. Just what the coaching experience offers!
So once we downloaded the magic of "ruby," we came up with “The Ruby Way,” but the Ruby Way soon turned into Ruby Ray — a woman instead of a method. And that’s what stuck.
To me, Ruby Ray is you, and me, and every woman in her fullest expression.
She represents the ray of coming into your power and authenticity, unapologetically ALIVE and FREE.
Ruby Ray is not a people-pleaser, someone who blends in, or someone who plays small.
Vibrating in her frequency feels like waking up excited for not just coffee, but for getting to live the whole day ahead as YOU, in YOUR body and YOUR life, because there is literally nothing you'd rather do.
It feels like being a kid again, and running through the sprinklers with wild abandon. It feels like absolutely crushing it in a pitch at work and knowing it. And it feels like falling so madly in love with yourself that you almost can’t sleep, you’re so lit.
This scintillating, powerful energy exists within every single woman, waiting to break free.
The only question is: Are you ready to free it in YOU??
CLIENT LOVE
READY TO FREE YOUR FULL POWER? LET’S CHAT.
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